Avoid cyber stalking-netiquette for rejecting profiles

Dating services online can be a fun place to meet new people, but because of the anonymity involved with dating online, you run a certain risk that the person you are striking up a conversation with isn't exactly who they say they are. Breaking off an online romance or even simply rejecting a profile emailed through an online dating service can be tricky if you don't do it with some finesse.

Cyber stalking is defined as unwanted contact or threats via email or instant messaging. Cyber stalkers can be relentless, sending mean and inappropriate emails so many times in one day that you no longer look forward to checking your email. They can also send pornographic material or even viruses disguised as apologies (Which you are more likely to open.)

Take heart, there are hundreds of online dating sites, from free dating services online to monthly or yearly membership dating sites, so don't give up, just learn the netiquette involved with saying "no" to a profile sent to you via adult dating online.

Online dating tips for saying "no thanks" include:

• Do not send a reply. It is very bad manners not to open an email, but once you have and would not like to have further contact, just do not reply. In internet language this is a common form of showing no interest, and is considered appropriate.

• If someone whom you have not replied to keeps sending you emails, use the sender block on your email, that's what it's for.

• If you are in a chat room and realize that the person you are chatting with probably isn't a good match, tell them so nicely and wish them well. Wait for a reply and kindly sign off.

• Always be kind and polite, but say nothing that could be construed as an indication that you might change your mind. Cyber stalkers, like "flesh and blood" stalkers, often believe that the other party did something to lead them on, even if you didn't, so leave no margin for error.

Always report this sort of abuse to the online dating service. A reputable company that provides adult dating online will censure or terminate someone who has reports of harassment.

Dating advice for car lovers

In today's dating scene, it has never been more important to make the right impression.

Dating is the latest casualty in America's constant effort to save time.

Online dating services, mobile connecting and speed dating have replaced long walks on the beach and lengthy dinner conversations.

Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider, renowned dating experts and co-authors of the New York Times best-selling series "The Rules," are helping singles adjust to this new era with their latest dating advice.

"When you only have a few minutes to assess your date, you have to make a great impression," says Fein. "Presentation is everything. Clothing goes a long way for men and women. Men are highly visual and can sense confidence. If you think you look good, he'll think you look good. Men, don't be sloppy. A well-dressed man is so much more appealing to a woman. And it's okay to dab on a little cologne, but don't overdo it or she'll be running for the door!"

In addition to personal presentation, the car you drive matters. A new Ford Fusion singles survey says men and women agree that cars make an impression on a date.

Ninety-five percent of women and 89 percent of men are extremely or somewhat likely to notice a first date's car; in addition, 52 percent of men made a connection with their date in a car, 50 percent of women promised a second date and nearly half of women experienced a first kiss in an automobile.

"Cars can tell you a lot about your date's personality," says Schneider. "Men, make your car work for you. Be sure to keep it clean. Throw away all of those fast food wrappers and get rid of the gym clothes and sports equipment. Also, be sure to ask her what music she wants to hear and open the doors. Chivalry is not dead. Ladies, if you are driving, get rid of the girlie things in the backseat. Nothing says needy like a stuffed teddy bear."

It's not just cleanliness or stuffed teddy bears that can make a difference.

Cars such as the Ford Fusion are designed to make the right impression. With leather interior and sporty design and handling, it's just the right car to drive you to a second date.

Read the letters carefully and learn more about your beloved one

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You can meet someone really great online. It can either be a long distance relationship with Russian bride or even someone from your city or state. Both of you seem to have perfect match and you can't wait to get her next letter. But are you sure that she truly likes you and her intentions are serious? How do you know that your correspondence have all chances for future serious relationships and she is not just a pen pall and waist of your time? Here are the communication, relationship, and attention signs to make everything clear before you meet your lady.

Correspondence

Dating has never been easy and especially online dating. Online dating is a completely different way of communication comparing with communication face to face. You don't see mimics, gestures of your lady and you don't know how she reacts on things that you share with her in your correspondence. The only thing you have is her letters, but how can you find out if her letters sincerely show her interest to you? In fact even a simple letter can tell you so much about your lady and her intentions.

There are some good signs for you while your correspondence with your Russian bride:

- She asks you questions. Person who is really interested in getting to know you will always ask questions about you, your life, family, friends, work, daily life, etc .

- She makes comments on your letter. If your lady is seriously interested in you and if she doesn't reply you just in order to be polite she will always make comments on what you wrote. She will try to express her opinion on this or that point, give you a piece of advice, express her sympathy or support.

- She carefully answers to your questions and talks openly even if you ask her about her life issues, plans for future, ambitions in life, finances, fears, children and past relationships.

- She compliments and praises you. If your lady is really serious about you she'll always compliment and praise you on your character traits, physical appearance, achievements in life, the way you treat her and so on.

- She is open and honest with you about her feelings. She tells you if she is happy or upset about you and explains the reasons.

- She always tries to reply you on time. If your lady replies your letters on time this means that she can't wait to get your next letter and she enjoys your correspondence.

Bad Signs:

- The only thing she asked about you was your favorite colour and what paper you read.

- She doesn't tell you how she feels about you and she never shares her plans for future with you.

- She promises you to answer to your questions or to make comments on some very important issue that you rose in her next letters, but never fulfills it.

- She calls you James when your name is John.

- She always asks for excuse about her late reply or short letter.

Relationships

Any relationships and especially online relationships can rarely survive without mutual support, care, understanding and trust. Every person who is interested in another one tries to share happy and sad moments together, solve things together, support and encourage each other.

Good Signs:

- In a crisis she tries to support you and say words of encouragement no matter what happened. Expressing her care, attention and concern to your achievements or faults she'll show that she is not indifferent to you, your life and to everything that is about you.

-She drops the «I» or «you» and starts referring as «we» - this means that your lady considers you and her as a whole and the one. She expects having common aims to reach, plans to fulfill, problems to solve and moments to share.

- She starts sharing small details of her life with you starting with her work affairs an ending with what she had for lunch. She will try to share even small details of her life with you in order to feel you closer to her with a hope you do the same in return.

- She asks for your advice on questions that are important for her. This will show you that your opinion is very important for her and she takes into consideration your point of view.

- She wants to develop your relationship and take it to a new level. Your lady doesn't want just to exchange letters with you, she wants to speak with you on the phone, she starts speaking about your future personal meeting, future life together and so on.

-She decided to stop or doesn't want to start corresponding with other men and wants to concentrate all her attention on you. She is sure that you are the right for her and she doesn't want to waist her time on others.

-She told her close people and relatives about your correspondence and how wonderful she feels about you. If relatives and close people of your lady know about your existence and even ask her to say «hello» to you, or you start talking with her children if she has one, this means she is so proud of having you as her partner or at least as potential partner.

Warning Signs:

- She doesn't pay any attention on what you share with her no matter if it's your achievement or fault.

- In her letters to you she speaks only about herself and her life and she doesn’t care about you and your routine.

- She never speaks about possibility of taking your relations to a more serious level and she tries to avoid such kind of questions.

Attention.

Attention is very important part of relationships. When there is lack of attention to another person it usually means indifference and lost of interest. This is so important to show how much you care about your partner and about those who mean so much for your partner and especially on some special occasions and dates.

Good Signs:

- She remembers the names of your close people, relatives and friends that you mentioned in your letters. If your lady calls your sister, friend or children and uses their names instead of «your son», «the friend you told me about» - this is a really good sign. This means that she is not just interested in you, but in everything and everyone your live is about. In her letters to you she asks not only about you, but about people who are important for you.

-She never forgets to congratulate you with your holidays whether it's Birthday, Christmas and New Year, St. Valentines Day or any other holidays. Lady who has deep interest in you will always try to make something pleasant for you. Like Russian bride does. She can even send you a parcel by post or at least an e-card to express how she feels about you. By the way, if your lady forgot to congratulate you with Independence Day of your country or with any other national holiday which is important to your country, don't worry and relax. This doesn't mean that she lost her interest in you she might never know that such holidays exist.

- She asks you to tell her more about your place or even searches the internet to find out all interesting information about your city, country, population, noticeable places and shares her impressions with you.

Warning Signs:

- She remembers about your birthday only when you tell her what a great Birthday party you had.

- She is never interested in names, age, interests and life of your close people (children, parents, brothers or sisters).

- She doesn't even remember what city or country you are from.

These Good and Bad signs are very helpful not only to find out about the level of interest to you but to treat your lady in a right way. Show her your interest in communication, ask questions about her life, share your opinion and give her a piece of advice on questions that are important for her, compliment her, show her your care by sending her some special gifts from you and NEVER forget: if you want strong and healthy relationships you must work on them. Be aware and objective about your relationship. If you can't nurture it, then it may be time to stop. If it's strong, then building upon mutual respect, attention and communication will only make it stronger.

The connection between blogs and dating

What do online dating and blogging have to do with each other? At first blush it may not seem like much, but dating blogs are becoming an increasingly popular feature on online dating websites. Blogs, or online journals, can be used to address dating issues to a wide audience, or just serve as a personal space for online dating clients to record their daily thoughts or ideas. The privacy settings that most dating blogs offer let also let people keep track of their dating history online, or keep friends up to date on the romance in their lives.

Dating blogs are among many of the new features that are being offered by online dating sites. Nowadays, Internet dating isn't relegated only to messaging and browsing, but also allows people to create and customize their own profile pages. Dating blogs are just one aspect of this.

The topics people choose to discuss on their dating blogs range as widely as the many personalities found on each website. Some popular topics include dating advice, humour, dating etiquette, and single parenthood. One of the greatest advantages of the personal dating blog is its flexibility. Members can use their dating blog space to serve whatever purpose they want, whether they want to talk about very personal issues, or really topics that relate to everyone.

What sets dating blogs apart from regular blogs? Not much really, aside from the content of a blog, or its location. By nature blogs are extremely personal and flexible in terms of what people choose to write about. However, blogs found on online dating websites are usually written by people who want a space to talk about dating issues, and want to discuss things that they know others on the site will be interest in. Most of the blogs found on Internet dating sites will touch on issues related to love, romance, or dating.

A gift idea for your russian bride

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Analyze and think what can really excite your Russian bride. You can impress her with your present or just can give some feeling of pleasure and delight, or even disappoint her. Anyway, Oksanalove online-dating agency witnessed all the gift ups and downs. So, if you want to learn from others mistakes or follow others success than, here we go!

In our experience of watching after the development of our clients’ relationships we had a case when two people finally found each other. They seemed as they completely felt in love one with another. A groom was on his way to his bride’s home-country intending to marry her. On the first romantic meeting he brought a present with him - some pasta, ketchup, and spam and stuff what made her a bit angry and offended. Then she could just laugh at it asking herself if her man thinks she’s starving, or did he want some charity, may be she’s too skinny for him, etc. All this of course damaged their good relationships and gave the lady a negative impression of the man that she has chosen.

Absolutely ignore an idea of giving her clothes. The answer is simple - you don't know woman’s exact size and style. Besides, Russian style of clothes for women can be quite different from the abroad fashion. So, don't even bother to bring her any jeans, blouse or dress.

It’s amazing how much the presents can impact couples’ relationships! If you not sure you want to make something special for your special Russian bride than just make a pleasure for her.

A low cost and cute little presents:
You can find out how you can bring your girlfriend some chocolates in different boxes choose cute boxes – girls love it, etc. Candies are a nice little present and girls love sweets.

Gifts for women who have kids:
Please, think about things to give if woman has children. Something like cute tennis shoes would be a huge hit. Sport suite with a known brand, t-shirt from Addidas or Nike is also a nice present and will be a huge hit. If you get a heart of your woman’s baby – than you definitely will get your woman’s heart! If she has a small kid, then sweets will work well again.

Wonderful gift ideas for young and sexy women. If you want to make something special for her and want her to think of you more often - get her a good perfume. “BLV” – from BVLGARY suits the tastes of the younger girls, it comes in a blue bottle and absolutely loved by them. It’s a gorgeous and very sexy fragrance, kind of expensive, but very nice. You’ll love your lady to wear it! Besides, whenever she’s going to use it, she will subconsciously think of you in the way she can describe “BVL” odor. The thing is that young ladies like to wear something smooth, fresh, and not too sweet. MEXX woman or Jil Sander’s “PURE” line is also a great advantage.
“Victoria’s Secret” has nice body treatment products and perfumes also, it is not expensive at all but comes in beautiful present boxes and have excellent quality and fragrance.

Wonderful gift ideas if your woman 35+++ years old Chanelle 5 – is very elegant and kind of smart, created for older ladies.

Anyway, if you guys have any doubts or questions regarding the presents don't hesitate to ask Oksanalove dating agency staff. We’ll be happy to help and provide our clients with information!

Dating personals photo tips

You're ready to try online dating. You've polished your profile, and your best friend has concluded that you are so attractive that even they would like to date you. It's come to that time! Somebody online who posted a dating personal wants to see what you look like. What picture of yourself will you paint when you display a photo along with your profile?

There are a few guidelines that apply to online dating photos that you should observe which will improve your profile. These are as follows:

1. Do add at least one photo of yourself to your profile! If you don't, you're seriously putting yourself at a disadvantage. Many people search only for people who have uploaded photos. Still others don't like the idea of a "blind date," and won't go through with a meeting if they haven't seen what you look like.

2. Remember that you are trying to be a salesperson here; you're trying to sell yourself. Look at the photographs of other people on the online dating site. Is yours similar? If so, you will not stand out from the crowd! The photo you post should be good quality.

Do yourself a favour and forget the shot that someone took of you when you were at a nightclub last month, cut off just to one side where your ex was still in the photo. There are tons of photos like this, and they don't make people want to find out more! Your profile will be more attractive than if you hadn't posted a photo, probably, but you're still not going to stand out from the crowd and do yourself justice. Ask yourself what you would want to see if you were a member of the target audience (usually the opposite sex), looking at your profile for the first time, and be critical.

At the very least, have a photo taken of yourself for the express purpose of using with your dating profile. You don't need to have had it done professionally, although it certainly wouldn't hurt! I suggest you find yourself someone who has a digital camera (or have them borrow yours) and can take photos well, and offer them a pint or three to take several photos of you. Get them to take a fair number of photos (20 or so), perhaps on different settings, because not all of them may work well, and because you then have a good selection to choose from.

Choose your backdrop carefully! A nice simple approach is to go to a field or a beach when it's near sunset, and have photos taken of yourself against this background. The background you choose should show yourself in a romantic or fun setting, and your clothes should be appropriate to that setting.

How about an interesting alternative? If you know somebody who is good with art packages such as Paint Shop Pro, have them paint out the background, and change the photo so that it looks like a spotlight is shining on you!

3. It may be a good idea to try and improve the photo, as is often done of photos of models in advertising. If you have any obvious, but small, disfigurements, these could be airbrushed out with a painting package. If you can't do it yourself, you probably know someone who can do it for you. Don't go overboard with this; make sure the photo still looks like you!

4. Don't be tempted to lie by posting a photo of George Clooney or Catherine Zeta Jones, unless of course you really are one of those people! The photo must be one of yourself, otherwise when it comes to a face-to-face meeting, the relationship could be over before it's even begun!

5. This tip is not well-known. Add a border to your photo, coloured the same as the hyperlinks on the target site. The reason for this is partly to make your photo stand out, but also because most photos shown on online dating agency sites are also links to your profile. Your photo will then look like a link, and it increases the chance of it being clicked on. If there is any "outside" to your photo, this should then have the exact same colour as the background of the site. This can be found by using Alt-Print Screen to grab an image of your web browser when on the dating site, then pasting it into an art package, and identifying the colour from there. (Note that some online dating agency sites already supply borders around images; the trick will not work on these.)

6. If you have several photos of you doing interesting activities and the site permits it, post one photo of you doing each activity in addition to your head-and-shoulders shot. For example, photos of you skiing while on holiday; photos showing you braving the rapids in white-water rafting; photos of you doing your favourite sport. They help to prove that you do the things you say you do in your profile, and they make your profile more interesting!

Flirting with married women

Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human

nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of

human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing;

a man flirts with a woman in order to attract

her, to ask her on a date.

There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys

which are flirting for fun do this because they

might seen a beautiful woman and flirt with her,

in order to meet her better, to have fun with her,

but not to start a relationship. The others,

which are flirting with intent, are more

selective about their choice, and want to meet

someone for a possible relationship.

The best places to flirt are parties, bars, clubs,

disco, and at the workplace. The first key to

successful flirting is not an ability to show off

and impress, but the knack of conveying that you

like someone.

However, you are single and you decided to go to

pick up some girls. You dressed up to impress,

smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful

woman from the club you are. After you use non

verbal flirting like body language, eye contact,

which indicates intense emotion, or gestures

which can signal interest, attraction and

invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is

responding you with a big smile and starts a

conversation with you.

After you compliment her and make her feel

special with you, she tells you that she is

married. Is this a big problem for you? If not,

if you want to approach her anyway you have to

compliment her, show interest about her, and be

sincere about it. Jerks hit all the time on

married women. That is why you have to show her

that she is interesting to you.

Married and flirting do not mix well. However,

many people do not consider this wrong as far as

it is just for fun. Flirting is like a game but

sometimes when you return the flirt things go a

little further. Often flirting is spontaneous, it

just happens as a normal response to somebody you

find appealing.

Dealing with married woman is very different from

women that are dating and single; there is a huge

amount of stigma applied by family, friends,

society, in order to try to keep married people

faithful.

Married women are usually looking to find someone

with whom to talk about their problems, someone

like a friend to understand them. If she really

wants to get into an extra - conjugal relationship

means that she has problems in her marriage, she

is bored of her husband, or she has a husband

that travels a lot and that is why she feels

lonely.

That is why she might be looking for someone to

offer her what her husband cannot. She is looking

for attention, love, understanding. She wants to

get much attention, time and affection as

possible without having to give up anything, so

you will be in her eyes just a friend. You should

tell her from the beginning that you will give

her all your attention if she would give you what

you want from her.

Usually married woman flirt, kiss and play guys

all the time but without any intention of taking

it further. If it happens to get with her in bed,

remember that a woman who is willing to cheat is

looking for excitement, drama. However, watch out

not to become her toy.

There are married women that need to see if

people are still interest in them. Therefore,

they begin to flirt to find out if they are still

attractive; they lose this feeling because their

husbands do not make them feel attractive anymore.

There are people who consider that flirting with

married people is harmless. Therefore, it is at

your choice if you really want to flirt with a

married woman and if you can handle it.

Kiss your mate day

What a lovely name for a day. A must celebration for those in love. April 28th is Kiss Your Mate Day. And obviously all the readers know what it means. Send ecards full of love messages if you are away with a promise to kiss him or her when you meet. Send an ecard planted with kiss - that will be difficult, but not impossible. And if you are with your mate on 28th April, you know what to do.

Rather than talking about kiss, how about talking of mate? The dictionary defines mate as companion, chum, friend, buddy and so on. In short, some one who is your real good friend. In common parlance, mate refers to a girl friend / boy friend with whom you are in love. Love and kisses obviously go together. A kiss seals the promise of love. But we were speaking about mate, so let us continue. Who do you call your mate? Do you have one? Did you have one? How was your life when you were together? How is your life now, if you have a mate?

Life is heavenly. Life is great. Life is lovely. Life is divine. Life is celestial. Life is marvelous. Life is pleasant. Life is delightful. Life is enchanting. One lives life when one is with one's mate. Am I correct? There is nothing better in life than to have a mate for life with whom we can share everything - all that is good and all that is bad. Many a times, we find that those in love try to hide certain bad things from their mate. A man will find it difficult to tell his mate that he is facing money problems when he is wooing her. Isn't it? Similarly girls will always try to show their best side.

When we call someone a mate, we cross all these limits that we have set for ourselves. We become one heart, one mind in two bodies. Nothing is hidden from each other. All our joys, worries, pleasures and anxieties, our phobias, our pains and our pleasures, we share all with our mate whom we love. Unless we can do that, our love and togetherness will be missing the essential joy that comes out of baring all.

Please kiss your mate on April 28th and make sure that you both become true mates for life with nothing left to hide. Unless you do that, the kiss will miss the purest love. Good Luck.

Love quiz- do looks matter to you more

What is love? What is attraction? Why do we love someone? Why do we say that we love someone? Why do not we say that we like someone or are getting attracted to someone? This is all because love is becoming a common word to be used for all kinds of attachments and relationships. Have you quizzed yourself about how much looks matter to you in love?

Will you love an ugly looking person even if she/he has every other quality in plenty? Or you will accept somebody better looking but missing in some qualities? What if you are told that the best looking person of the opposite sex has fallen for you and wants love in return? When you develop relationship, you find that person missing in many essential qualities and values that you respect. What will you do?

Quiz yourself about your relationships. Many of the relationships break because we are attracted by looks but as we get closer we find the other person difficult and break the relationship. It happens with most of us. We all go for looks in the beginning. Very rarely, we give points for other qualities in a logical manner. We look at a attractive person and say-I am in love. Quiz yourself and you will realize why many of your relationships broke? We may deny that. But the main attraction is always great looks. Quiz yourself about this and probably you will come to know more about what are your priorities in relationships and love.